𝕄𝕪 𝕗𝕒𝕧𝕠𝕦𝕣𝕚𝕥𝕖 𝕤𝕠𝕔𝕚𝕒𝕝 𝕞𝕖𝕕𝕚𝕒 𝕚𝕟𝕗𝕝𝕦𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖𝕣

 

Syahmi Sazli and his production team

from left, Yoe, Syahmi, Asif

You must be wondering, why Syahmi Sazli and his production team are my favorite social media influencers?

Its all started in 2019, when my big family (my mum's family) and I went on vacation at the end of the year. My eldest aunt shared with us about his (Syahmi Sazli) funny short drama on YouTube. It was the first time for me to know Syahmi Sazli.

After that moment, my family and I started to watch his funny video on YouTube, which is commonly starring by Asif Suhaimi and Yoe Parey (Ashrul). Even though they use spontaneous dialogue as they are persons with different abilities, their acting is very good as we can get the meaning of the story in the video. Their dialogue can be hilarious, especially when they try to give a 'pickup line' to ladies.

This can be a proof that everyone can achieve success even though we have different abilities and skills from others. It encourage me to believe that I can achieve my dream too if I have a high determination and confident on my abilities.

Besides, my family and I love to watch their videos as they speak in Kelantan dialect, which my parents use to speak up in their daily life as Kelantan is their hometown (place of origin). Yes, we proud of him 😏.

Thank you for reading my blog !

Dictionary :

'Parey' means parang (in Malay), which is the reason of Yoe being called as 'Yoe Parey' is his family sell 'keropok ikan parang' in Kelantan.

𝐍𝐨 𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲, 𝐍𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬

From Wikipedia, bullying is the use of force, coercion, hurtful teasing or threat, to abuse, aggressively dominate or intimidate. 

It is common knowledge that bullying often occurs in real life such as when we are working or we are studying in a school. The form of this bullying is usually involves threats to be beaten or to break the victim’s top secret if the victim doesn't want to follow the bully’s instructions or wishes, such as finish their work or school assignments, cover their expenses at school or worst like be their slave for a certain period of time.

Nowadays, bullying can happen anywhere by using the social media, Internet etc. For example, the bully writes negative comments or ridicule comments, such as "You are just a copycat from other people contents" against the victim's sharing on social media so that other social media users also mock the victim of bullying. This bullying situation is called "cyberbullying". 

Cyberbullying means the use of electronic communication to bully a person, typically by sending messages of an intimidating or threatening nature.

In my life, I have never been bullied or bullying other people (hope you haven’t either, but if you have, I pray you’ll be kept away from it). Still, I have some friends who have been bullied by others in my life. Most of them are bullied because of their physicality as well as their reticent attitude that considered weak by the bully.

As a caring society, we must take this bullying matter as a serious matter because it will affect the feelings and mentality of the victim of bullying. We can help the bully's victim by giving them a positive spirit to move on and report the bully's actions to authorities or counselor. This action can help us to prevent more people from experiencing depression after being bullied.

I want to share with you some steps to take if you are being bullied by someone;

Firstly, tell and express your problems to trusted people such as your parents, teachers or close friends. Remember to tell the true and whole story on how you get bullied by the bully. Then, get some help or advice from them on how to prevent you from being bullied in the future. After that, you must follow their positive advice, keep practicing on it and keep your mental health from negative stress. (Note: do not retaliate with violence as well as it will worsen the situation). 

Most of people only become a bystander when someone is bullied because they scared of the risk to be a victim of the bully as well. We must avoid being the bystander by collaborating with people around us to stop the bully from bullying as two heads are better than one. This action makes the bully afraid to fight us back as our number of people is more than the bully's group member.

We can conclude that we must help each other in order to keep our society peace and harmony, not only in this bullying matter, but also in the other social problems. It is our responsibility to keep our physically and mentally health in a good condition as well as others. Therefore, say "NO" to bully and spread the good vibes to others.

Sincerely,

Nur Ainin Sofiya